ABJ Win

Can you imagine how annoying it is when somebody did not reply your sms? Or your msn? Or your phone call? Or your message?

Well, I had a similar encounter yesterday. This really annoyed me to my bone. (Hmph!) Is this how a person treats a friend? Or she just doesn’t care about the so-called precious friendship at all? Maybe. I notice in a lot of circumstances happening around us, it’s the opposite sex that is usually attracting the attention although these two persons might just meet each other.

For example, (it’s story time) let say A and B are actually two gals who are friends (although not best friend but at least the friendship is mutual). These two gals get along well and suddenly there is this guy, let’s call him C (C stands for CB) comes to know the gals and become friends for both A and B. Now, a scenario happens. Let’s make B the actress and C the actor and A the “Annoyed” person who is the story teller.

B is approach on the same day by both C and A (who has been B’s friend far longer than C) asked B out for a lunch date. Imagine if you are in B’s shoe, how will you handle this situation? Well, for me, I will ask both C and A to go together. BUT, it’s not what is happening in this case. In this situation, B actually ignore A (Totally) without a reply or anything or even a sorry after lunch saying sorry din see the message go for lunch already or make out whatever reason you can think of. But NO ladies and gentleman, no reply what so ever. B totally ignore A (Imagine how hurtful A must be feeling *sobbing*)

And to make matter worst, A and B actually bump each other at the same place where they are having lunch. Guess what A saw? A actually saw a happily bubbly B chit chatting with stars in her eyes and a smile from ear to ear having lunch with C. Now, imagine how will you feel if you are in A’s shoes? *volcano erupt*

With that as the ending, I will like to conclude that whatever this B has done to A, it’s not going to be forgiven anytime sooner. If this is how B will continue to treat her friends this way, sooner or later she is going to be left without a single friend that is willing to go through thick and thin with her. (Well, maybe she thinks that opposite is always nicer? Or more exciting?) Be prepare to feel lonely then, because no matter how juicy a guy might be, she will never experience the special bonding which only a female friend can give.


p/s: if you are wondering what ABJ means, it means “ah bit jiu” – Foochow language.
Still don’t understand, email me. ;)